My thanks to Jev and Smorter for contributions so far, and to Mark for starting what is turning into a really useful thread.
I can't see that reaction to high-speed flash thing, Smorter. OK, they are incredibly quick, but reacting to the flash pulses in less than 1/1000th of a second? Some birds react to the sound of the mirror flipping up (one of the things you do when shooting without flash is fire plenty of shots so that they get used to the shutter noise, most species (but not all) do that quite quickly) but that's in the order of 1/20th of a second when you are not using flash. There is a longer delay betwen shutter-press and shutter actuation using flash, presumably because of the time required for the pre-flash - at least there seems to be as the shutter doesn't go off as quickly as I expect when I'm using flash.
Now, to doing it with manual flash settings. Here is a challenge! There is no way you could ever calculate the correct settings and make the adjustments in the very brief time you have (until the bird settles, we don't know how far away it's going to be, what the background is going to be, or what colour it is going to be - that White-naped Honeyeaer above, for example, needs around 2/3rds of a stop less flash than a more typical mid to dark toned bird, otherwise you blow the whites out). But I can come at the idea of calculating a "standard" setting in a given location under given lighting conditions, and then adjusting up and down from there on the fly by guess and by god. (After all, using ETTL we are already estimating the manual exposure settings for ambient light on the background and estimating the amount of flash exposure compensation.)
That is going to be a major challenge just the same! You already have way too much to do in not enough time doing any sort of smal bird photography, it gets harder with TTL flash, harder again with manual flash. (I've actually been pondering doing that myself at Belinda's place where the drinkers come thick and fast in season, but I'll have to wait till the hot weather returns next year.)
Last point: distance and power. The Better Beamer isn't terribly efficient; it's a fiddly damn thing to set up and you still spray a lot of light around where you don't need it, but is does make quite a difference to your reach. Wild guess: 3 x more reach? Something like that. But 20 metres is way too far - never mind whether the flash can do that distance, you want to be at less than 10 metres from a small bird prety much anytime you take a shot, and you don't start getting really good results until you get to around 5 metres. (As a rough rule of thumb, I reckon than once I have to use a close-up ring on my 500 - which has a minimum focus distance of 4.5 metres - I should be getting excellent results. Sometimes I put an extension tube on it when I'm just doing general walk-around birding - that means I can't take shots of anything that isn't pretty close, and though I obviously miss some shots, the ones I miss are mostly the ones I'd only be throwing away later anyway.)