I believe in the exceptions, I simply state that to call someone pixel peeping (which you did) because they demand more from their equipment than you is wrong and to state that they are attempting to get their gear to compensate is insulting to say the least, particularly when you have never posted a photo to this website.
To believe that only your requirements are the correct ones and anyone outside of these boundaries is unprepared or improperly anticipating a shot is also wrong. Some of the best photos I've seen are those that were taken in less than ideal situations with the wrong lens because there wasn't time to change a lens. To assume that all photos allow you to be adequately prepared is flawed. Photography is life and without being psychic, there is no way to predict the unpredictable. Unlike weddings where you have control of the elements, not all photography allows you to plan the perfect shot. I'm assuming you shoot RAW? If so, why? Isn't it for exactly the reason that you can fix something that you didn't have a chance to do at the time of taking a photo, like white balance variations due to changes in light? Or if what you are trying to say is correct, you should be shooting JPG and doing zero post processing because any post processing is as a result of you being unprepared or having raw compensate for you not being properly prepared or not having anticipated a shot.
The point is, camera technology is getting better and allows for you to compensate. Auto white balance, something we take for granted (no matter how bad it can be at times), along with every other pieces of functionality like auto focus, metering (which no longer requires you to carry a light meter), high ISO, etc. There are 36MP cameras that allow for you to crop because you don't have a 400mm lens with you. That's not being unprepared, that's making the best of your situation. There are high ISO's that compensate for that fact that you cannot use a flash in some circumstances. Again, that isn't lack of preparation, you can be prepared and not bring a flash because the circumstances don't allow you to use one.
So if you are practicing what you preach, I assume you shoot manual, carry a light meter, white balance every photo before taking it and shoot everything at night with flash.