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Thread: How Do I Politely Decline A Request for a Freebie?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rattus79 View Post
    when people ask me to work on a cashless basis, I ask them what they do for a living and depending upon how they answer I ask them if they will fix my fridge/build my house/pave my driveway/do my taxes etc and do it for free...
    Exactly what I was going to suggest!
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    Chapter 2. How Maezyra Politely Declined A Request For A Freebie
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    It seems, at least by your last post that you have not yet communicated to this woman . . .
    My opinion is akin to Am's response.
    A simple:

    "thank you for your email enquiry, but I am not available for the work."

    I too would NOT give reasons nor would I provide any details of plans you might have.

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    On another issue that you mentioned above. . .

    "She seriously annoys me. She won't be paying me..."

    I note that it occurs to you that 'she' is the doer of the annoying.
    In this case: 'she' has the control of the situation.

    I suggest that you try this:

    "I am terribly annoyed by her actions."

    Then, simply turn off YOUR annoyance: that way you have control.


    WW

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